Truly Kimberly By Kimberly Guido
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Written by Kimberly Guido
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Tuesday, 06 July 2010 09:16 |
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At some point in our lives, we all experience failure, rejection, and death of a loved one. Examples include: failing a test, getting rejected by the person we like, and finding out that someone close to us has passed away. When we experience these, we undergo grief. We start feeling intense emotions, we get caught up in a loop of mess, and we start questioning ourselves.
I never really understood the dynamics of these occurrences until I learned about Elisabeth Kübler-Ross’ five stages of grief. She explained that people go through at least two of the five stages, and in any order. She has also noted that even though not everyone goes through the same stages, the same pattern of behaviour is displayed by individuals going through grief. To understand more about the five stages, we’ll take this scenario: Hayley is an A-average student who has never failed a test in her life. |
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Written by Kimberly Guido
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Wednesday, 02 June 2010 09:14 |
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“Kimberly Guido”.
The way these words were uttered was rather different in comparison to the “normal” times my name gets called out. I held my head high and said, “This is it”. I marched through the stage with such pride (and a huge sigh); I was in the moment. Three years of essays, assignments, and exams have finally paid off. All of my hard work has been rewarded. I was finally graduating. Helping people, particularly children and teenagers, |
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Written by Kimberly Guido
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Wednesday, 07 April 2010 03:54 |
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Being human equates to being imperfect. This existing fact that lingers within us is something that we always endeavour not to show. We constantly avoid making mistakes, because we all subconsciously believe that errors lead to incompetence.
We all have expectations. Imagine asking out someone you have liked for ages to a date. What response would you want to hear? When we try to achieve something, we imagine two possible outcomes – the good and the bad. And we all know which hole captures the bullet. I believe that part of this tactic avoidance is due to how we were brought up. Growing up, we are taught to do what is “right” and to stay away from everything “bad”. Therefore, anything that is considered “wrong” is considered a failure, which is also associated with being worthless. |
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Written by Kimberly Guido
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Monday, 01 March 2010 07:07 |
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Different jobs require different skills. Here is my story:
About two months ago, I started my very first job. |
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Written by Kimberly Guido
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Monday, 01 February 2010 08:42 |
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“Loving another person is not separate from loving God. One is a single wave, the other is the ocean.”
This is a quote from one of my favourite authors, Deepak Chopra, which emphasises the unique interconnection that |
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